How to Earn a Child's Respect (7 Steps)

Draw boundaries to separate you as the adult decision-maker in the home from your child and his friends. Be friendly, but don't treat your child as your friend. Keep in mind that kids need adults to accept the role of parent, recommends psychologist, Jim Taylor, according to 'Psychology Today.' Host play dates for your children and plan activities with peers so you can establish peer friendships of your own to model respectful adult relationships for your children.
Respect your child's personal space, privacy, opinions and temperament while also teaching your child the household rules of behavior. Even young children like to have special personal items and a personal space such as a toy box reserved for play items. Ask before using these things to help teach your child respect for the belongings of others.
Model respect for members in the community by talking politely to people -- even when you may not agree with the person. Teach your child to respect people, regardless of differences in beliefs, ethnicity and ability.
Demonstrate respect for your parents and grandparents and model the behavior you'd like to see your children use with you as the child ages. Allow parents and grandparents special privileges at family gatherings as the elders, and make a point of asking them to talk about family history and heritage.
Make time to be with your child to enjoy activities together so he can learn to appreciate what parents do to keep him safe and comfortable. Discuss your work with your child and explain the details when your job takes you away from him.
Listen to your child. Avoid immediately accepting viewpoints about his behavior or actions from others, and praise him when he acts respectfully to you or others.
Establish a set of home rules, and be fair and consistent in enforcing these regulations with your child. Uneven and inconsistent enforcement frequently makes your child view your disciplinary actions as personal and vindictive, rather than a learning opportunity to keep him from harm. Fair application teaches respect for the rules and for the rule enforcer.
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